Well it's over. Probably wasted the last 18 months, although I would like to think I spent that time trying. But she just was to far gone and didn't have the courage to admit it. After her first affair it was a helluva roller coaster for a year. But then I caught her having an E/A with another. This time I blew it wide open (her mom) and sent her packing. After that the guys wife calls her and tells her to back off. She was gone for a month and asked to try again. But instead of working on the problem straight away, I let everything settle down before we would tackle this monster.
Well unfortunately for me I waited to long. Her original P/A partner starts contact again. And with the help of her friends & her boss she starts up with him again. I guess it's a girl thing...they get all the drama without any real risk.
Long story short she is gone and as soon as the divorce is final she will probably move in with him (and marry him too)
If anything it will be comical (in a sad kind of way) to watch this train wreck unfold. You see he is a three time loser (two marriages that ended when he cheated and left his live in girlfriend of 11yrs with whom he cheated on three times) to get to this point. So she is headed for a nightmare (deservedly so I guess) and its just a matter of time.
As for me, I'll just lay low for a while and get my life in order. Then decide if I should move away from here. The last thing I need is to walk into a restaurant and see those two mud ducks sitting there.
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