Well, while you are waiting for the PI to get you some information, why not go read my exposure thread in my signature and start planning for a massive, strategic exposure.

Cat is out of the bag. Confronted the OM. Caught them togethor. I couldn't talk to her. She went inside too quick. Didnt see me. Fired PI. Joke.... The [censored], Slammed door in my face. I was being casual. I could have strangled his bald head though. Wife (Cheating) is still denying the affair. Just friends.... Yah.... Keeps sending me text messages saying we agreed to separate (Sent a reply everytime, we never agreed, we are married and that we shoild stay home and work this out). Trying to save face with [censored]. She could only throw out negative comments from past. Protecting the OM ([censored]). Why??? He couldn't even stand up for her. Just slam the door on me. Punk. I would have held my ground for her if she was my girlfriend. But, she is my wife and I will hold my ground..... I'm not a small guy so guess he was uncertain.

She is still there. Hopefully this makes a difference. I would think that she would leave. Confused.........

Calm and strategic. Your emotions are your worst enemy. Do you have a background check on the OM? Do you have the names and contact info of his parents, children? Is he married? Where does he work? Does he have a criminal background?

We need this information for exposure.

Please go read my exposure thread and start planning an exposure. You have all the proof you need. You can say a PI caught them together and that you have the proof. Your wife spent several nights with the OM. You also have a recording of them discussing their affair that you can upload to a website and send out a link with your exposure letters.

You really need to do a background check.
My ex wife's affair partner was a convicted violent felon that went to prison for trying to kill a child.

He may have blocked you from Facebook.
You may need to create another account with a different name and email address.

Found him on facebook. Got a background investigation from PI. Not much on there, but got some contact information. She still denies the affair. Stayed with OM last night even after I confronted them togethor. OM was born 2 days after I was. Same age. Send out emails to his family next.

Don't forget your family and hers. Use the templates that are provided in the "How to Plan A" thread. Also, read that thread on how to respond to yoru WW's anger in the aftermath of your exposure. Stay frosty!

Did you copy and paste all his contacts like I suggested? And you are going to have to pay $1.00 each to send those Facebook messages to your targets.

his contacts on facebook are all hidden

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Facebook: A Backdoor to See "More" Info

She wants to move out and separate (Legal Separation). She needs space. She still denies it even though I played a recording for her. The OM called her and is threatining to get a warrant for my arrest. She told him I recorded some of their conversations. I called his parents, very casual and nice. I asked if they could talk to him and help end this affair. He took that as a threat. She told him not too. This is ugly. I knew it would be. I just hope she can see past this and work on our marriage.

She wants to move out and separate (Legal Separation).

Do nothing to cooperate. Don't even discuss it. Feign deafness, walk out of the room if she brings it up.

"But we need to talk about this....."
"I talk marital recovery. Let's start there."

She needs space.

She wants you less able to track her actions.

She pushed the issue today and wants to get an apartment. Looking at the GPS. She is in our subdivision making a call to the OM. Had a recording from the weekend. She is taking him to her Nieces weeding this coming weekend. She tells him everything I say to her. He is pushing her hard. I guess he has been chasing after her for years.

Ranger. The exposure???? Where are you on that?

Ok, I see that you even called his parents DAYS AGO and have squandered the tsunami effect of exposure.

Are you interested at all in saving your marriage? If so, would you be interested in employing the NUMBER ONE weapon against the affair?

Tried stopping it. explosion of exposure was ugly. What do I do? Not stopping

You have to expose the affair. Go read my Exposure 101 thread, make a plan. Gather all your names, phone #s, email addresses, etc and line out your talking points. Once you make that plan, come back here and show us your plan.

You can't do a trickle exposure and expect to have any effect. That is like taking a pea shooter to a gun fight. All you do is get your a** shot off.

Can you do that?

How is it going Ranger?