(I also posted this in the "recovery" section)

My wife and I have been together for almost two years, and were together for 4 years before that. Approximately 2 months ago she entered into an EA with a much older man. It was clearly at first an emotional affair that moved to physical.

I want our relationship to work, but also am aware she needs to want that too.

I'm having a hard time saying i'm done, and want to move on. Would prying more into the relationship help that? I've been hurt by the information I know, but feel I can move on, as I feel I know the cause. I know most of the communication, especially early was via email, is it going too far to ask to read those emails?

Thanks for any help you all can offer.