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We started MB in Feb 2012. We have not progressed. My husband has good intentions and says all the right things but I do not see any thing in his actions that convince me that I can trust him. I struggle with resentment.
I believe that he should not be pushed into doing MB but should want to do it.
At the present momentI see no hope for the future and need wisdom to decide on what to do. Divorce is not something that I look forward to but it seems to be the only solution....
Please support me in prayer to make the right decision and to know what that decision should be?
married 20 years
3 beautiful children(19,17 and 12)
DDAY 1 - June 2003(EA ? duration)
DDAY 2 - OCT 2011(EA spanning 4-5 Years)
MB Weekend course Feb:2012
Joel 2:25 -"I will restore unto you the years that the Locust has eaten."
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OBHG, I'll pray for you.
How would you feel about posting on the SAA forum and glean from the wisdom there?
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Prisca,
Thanks for the prayers.
I have posted on the SAA forum,Ive read and reread many posts. Nothing seems to help at the moment.
married 20 years
3 beautiful children(19,17 and 12)
DDAY 1 - June 2003(EA ? duration)
DDAY 2 - OCT 2011(EA spanning 4-5 Years)
MB Weekend course Feb:2012
Joel 2:25 -"I will restore unto you the years that the Locust has eaten."
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FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I'll be praying for God to grant you the wisdom you need.
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Prisca,
Thanks for the prayers.
I have posted on the SAA forum,Ive read and reread many posts. Nothing seems to help at the moment. Please post there with an update on your situation. Whatever situation you are in, there is a MB plan for you to give you the best chance.
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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Thanks for the replies and Prayers.
married 20 years
3 beautiful children(19,17 and 12)
DDAY 1 - June 2003(EA ? duration)
DDAY 2 - OCT 2011(EA spanning 4-5 Years)
MB Weekend course Feb:2012
Joel 2:25 -"I will restore unto you the years that the Locust has eaten."
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OBHG, I read through your posts and can't find how the EA ended and its origins. Was it a coworker? What have you done to confirm that the EA is over? Who was the OP?
Please respond on the Surviving an Affair forum and bring us up to speed. You haven't been following MB. What you've been doing isn't working. How about you give MB a serious try?
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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Will post an update on SAA.
married 20 years
3 beautiful children(19,17 and 12)
DDAY 1 - June 2003(EA ? duration)
DDAY 2 - OCT 2011(EA spanning 4-5 Years)
MB Weekend course Feb:2012
Joel 2:25 -"I will restore unto you the years that the Locust has eaten."
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Hello ,
I have posted an update on the SAA forum and look forward to your input.
Thanks.
married 20 years
3 beautiful children(19,17 and 12)
DDAY 1 - June 2003(EA ? duration)
DDAY 2 - OCT 2011(EA spanning 4-5 Years)
MB Weekend course Feb:2012
Joel 2:25 -"I will restore unto you the years that the Locust has eaten."
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