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Does anyone know how to find a reputable PI out of state, and what can I expect to pay? Husband is working there and I think I need a PI, as he is up to his old 'out of town' bad behavior.
Sorry for asking, have been searching and reading but can't really find notes on how to determine a PI is legitimate and will actually do the work when I am so far away.
Thanks.
Last edited by SoooFedUp; 06/25/13 07:03 PM.
ME -BW? Not sure yet
Married 30 years
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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thank you! I will go read that now.
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SFU, You should start a thread in the forum Surviving an Affair. You wrote this in 2010, and it seems that the conditions that facilitate affairs - his staying away from home during the week - are still in place: I think I am done too. I feel the same way as what you said "I feel neglected and used" too. My H works out of town and leaves me alone all week with all the responsibilities. You've obviously been reading on the board for at least 3 years and yet this fundamental problem in your marriage has not been dealt with. What are you going to do when the PI discovers an affair? And if he doesn't - are you going to let the work situation continue? Please start a thread. You will get a huge amount of help in SaA.
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Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Thanks SugarCane, I will start a thread. My H seems to think making a lot of money is more important... I don't agree.
Yes, I have been reading off an on for awhile now. BTW, I think I found a PI to use. Hope to get that started this weekend.
Thanks again.
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Married 30 years
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