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Well all, The weekend is almost here. I don't have alot of access to a computer on the weekend so it is tough for me to stay in touch with the board. I get lonely on the weekends. I've withdrawn from my family and most of my friends so it is usually just me and the W. Sometimes that can be a good thing, but most times we fight.<BR>I'm looking forward to Tuesday though. It will be my first session with my shrink. I hope that it helps. Our counselling sessions are going to be starting next week in earnest. She is also looking forward to her sessions with a shrink.<BR>I guess the rebuilding process has begun, but I don't feel any better yet. I still have no idea if things between the two of them are completely ended. For all I know he moved up here and is seeing her every day.<BR>Sorry for the rambliing but I couldn't stop.<BR>To everyone have a Great weekend.<P>------------------<BR>That Which does not kill us makes us stronger.<P>
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Just keep hanging in there. I hate weekends too and I HAVE access to a computer. They were always family times and I get really lonely.<P>I do hope the counseling sessions help out some. And yep, I guess the rebuilding part has begun, so has a lot of hard work. I can't wait to see some of MY posts IF I ever get that chance.<P>You guys have a nice weekend too. Maybe plan something kinda fun!<P>Lori
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Thanks Lori...<BR>Your posts are very welcome. <BR>I'll be thinking about you.<BR>Have a great weekend!<P>------------------<BR>That Which does not kill us makes us stronger.<P>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>it is usually just me and the W. Sometimes that can be a good thing, but most times we fight<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>You have to be the one to NOT start a fight, be the one to NOT continue it when the wife starts it, and the one to stop it & apologize. No Love Busters.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A>
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Chris, It isn't easy to stop a fight when the person is intentionally pushing your buttons, but You are right . I'll take your advice and try it. Have a nice weekend.<P>------------------<BR>That Which does not kill us makes us stronger.<P>
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Robilar, I don't post much on the weekends cause we try to spend the most time together we can with kids and alone, plus church stuff. Do you two have fun things you can do together? Hike, sports, picnic. play dumb board games? That helps us fill the silences when we just are worn out emotionally.<P>Liz<BR>His Pearl of Great Price<BR>soon to be<P>POGP<P>------------------<BR>When you go through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. Isaiah 43:2<P><BR>
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