Tried to post to parentsplace.com under matial reconciliation but wasn't having any luck. Anyway you've been weighing heavy on my heart and I know this weekend is big event with your son. I just wanted to let you know that I'm praying for you and if you keep focused in that this event is for your son and you are their to support him I hope seeing OM will be a little easier. You are a good dad, just remember that! Lots of ((Hugs))!!

Thanks Bikermom....<P>I just saw this post after coming back from helping at our church bingo!<P>Yes... this is <B>that</B> bad weekend...<BR>see <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/008644.html" TARGET=_blank>I have to spend time with OM... Yuck!</A><P>I've posted here... and of course I got the response I knew I would...<BR>see <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/009190.html" TARGET=_blank>Letter to OM?</A><P>I will play it cool! No Love Busting! No fighting!... I'll put it in God's hands.<P>My wife picked up the kids tonight... but boy... did she ever cuss me out tonight... the F... ..U's where just flying left and right and up and down. Thank God the kids weren't in hearing distance. I think it was one of 2 things... (1) anticipating a bad confrontation on Sunday... or (2) she got the notice from the Social Security Admin that I am requesting to be the "payee" for my stepson instead of her. see <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/008840.html" TARGET=_blank>I hate Love Busting...</A><P>Whatever the reason... it was an unusual feeling but even after she said the worst... <B>I still love her</B>... I can see the addiction (with OM) huting her much more than me. It makes me sad but there is not much that I can do.<P>Thanks for the prayers...<BR>When the day becomes hard... I'll think of all the goodwill I've gotten from here and the parentsplace too!<P>Jim<p>[This message has been edited by NSR (edited November 05, 1999).]