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#2746169 07/29/13 03:16 PM
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Where are you Melodylane ?



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Yes, I would like the benefit of your wisdom, too!

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ML is taking a much deserved break from posting.


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I was hoping it was that and she is well! Thank you, JustUss.



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I hope she is all right and that she returns soon. The work she has done here can never be overstated. Without MelodyLane I would never have understood Marriage Builders, and mine and Prisca's marriage would not have been saved, and I'm sure hundreds of others can credit her in helping to save their marriages. She is simply irreplaceable in what she does on this forum.

Thank you, MelodyLane, for everything you have done for us and for this community. Please come back soon!


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Originally Posted by markos
I hope she is all right and that she returns soon. The work she has done here can never be overstated. Without MelodyLane I would never have understood Marriage Builders, and mine and Prisca's marriage would not have been saved, and I'm sure hundreds of others can credit her in helping to save their marriages. She is simply irreplaceable in what she does on this forum.

Thank you, MelodyLane, for everything you have done for us and for this community. Please come back soon!

Co-signed.

She is our marriage's best friend.

Mr. W


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Originally Posted by MrWondering
Originally Posted by markos
I hope she is all right and that she returns soon. The work she has done here can never be overstated. Without MelodyLane I would never have understood Marriage Builders, and mine and Prisca's marriage would not have been saved, and I'm sure hundreds of others can credit her in helping to save their marriages. She is simply irreplaceable in what she does on this forum.

Thank you, MelodyLane, for everything you have done for us and for this community. Please come back soon!

Co-signed.

She is our marriage's best friend.

Mr. W

x3

She has gone above and beyond to help me through some dark times as well as my baby sister -- that's just her...she cares so much about helping people and their marriages.

She is dear to me and I miss seeing her here!


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I was wondering too, I have learned so much from reading posts from her, and pepperband also. I miss seeing them both around here and hoped they were both just happily enjoying the summer, and husbands!

Good for Melody....you are missed for sure, but do deserve a break!

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***EDIT***

I am sure during her well deserved sabbatical, herself and Mr. ***EDIT*** are enjoying their UA among other EN's. grin


On a not so silly note, we have several vets taking a sabbatical who are dearly missed. My thoughts are with you.

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Originally Posted by SusieQ
Originally Posted by MrWondering
Originally Posted by markos
I hope she is all right and that she returns soon. The work she has done here can never be overstated. Without MelodyLane I would never have understood Marriage Builders, and mine and Prisca's marriage would not have been saved, and I'm sure hundreds of others can credit her in helping to save their marriages. She is simply irreplaceable in what she does on this forum.

Thank you, MelodyLane, for everything you have done for us and for this community. Please come back soon!

Co-signed.

She is our marriage's best friend.

Mr. W

x3

She has gone above and beyond to help me through some dark times as well as my baby sister -- that's just her...she cares so much about helping people and their marriages.

She is dear to me and I miss seeing her here!
x4

I have learned so much from her posts and love her direct approach.

I do hope you come back soon ML. hug


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Fyi mel, i was just using your other nickname you call yourself, so it was not a personal attack.


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***edit****

Melodylane, for those that missed it wrote about a month or two ago that she was taking a break. After about a week or two she started posting. It appears she is on a MB vacation again.

****edit***

At least we have Melodylane Jr in MB's time of need. laugh

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Who is ML Jr.?

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Originally Posted by tismeagain
Who is ML Jr.?
She knows who she is. Fast with a link.

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She knows who she is. Fast with a link.

Mrs. Jimmy Dean?

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Originally Posted by NeverGuessed
She knows who she is. Fast with a link.

Mrs. Jimmy Dean?
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Maybe she's in jail

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Originally Posted by Jedi_Knight
Maybe she's in jail

For pistol whipping.

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Originally Posted by NeverGuessed
She knows who she is. Fast with a link.

Mrs. Jimmy Dean?

No it is not you.

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Brainy!


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