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Part of Plan A, did you expose?
Will you write Dr. H?
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I exposed before plan A. It would not have worked during plan A because of the anger it caused to my wife.
I am not sure what to write to Dr Harley about. I will do anything to get back the woman I love, despite that fact that she has had 2 affairs, but I am giving up hope. Maybe he can give me an indication of where I stand but I doubt that he has the time to hear my whole story. He would need to know everything.
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I exposed before plan A. It would not have worked during plan A because of the anger it caused to my wife.
I am not sure what to write to Dr Harley about. I will do anything to get back the woman I love, despite that fact that she has had 2 affairs, but I am giving up hope. Maybe he can give me an indication of where I stand but I doubt that he has the time to hear my whole story. He would need to know everything. That's why you write out a summary to them and then become a caller. Then Dr. Harley will direct you. What do you have to lose?
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I exposed before plan A. It would not have worked during plan A because of the anger it caused to my wife.
I am not sure what to write to Dr Harley about. I will do anything to get back the woman I love, despite that fact that she has had 2 affairs, but I am giving up hope. Maybe he can give me an indication of where I stand but I doubt that he has the time to hear my whole story. He would need to know everything. That's why you write out a summary to them and then become a caller. Then Dr. Harley will direct you. What do you have to lose? To clarify what you are suggesting: I use the Joyce Harley e-mail address (his wife?) and write a summary of what, the history of our marriage, the affair or the current plan B? What kind of advice am I looking for, plan B or the whole thing? Do I ask one question only? I have 100 questions. Then you say they may book a time for me to speak to them on the radio? or they could just broadcast an answer? If it is only one question, is it worth it? I just do not know how to put the whole thing in one question only. This whole situation is very difficult for me. It is also very stressful for my wife, she has money problems emotional problems and problems with the children but she does not want to see the damage she is causing to everyone, including herself.
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I exposed before plan A. It would not have worked during plan A because of the anger it caused to my wife.
I am not sure what to write to Dr Harley about. I will do anything to get back the woman I love, despite that fact that she has had 2 affairs, but I am giving up hope. Maybe he can give me an indication of where I stand but I doubt that he has the time to hear my whole story. He would need to know everything. That's why you write out a summary to them and then become a caller. Then Dr. Harley will direct you. What do you have to lose? I sent a message to Mrs Harley but she did not reply.
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Like I said, I have sent a message to Mrs Harley and she did not reply. I have not seen feed-back about it in the thread here. So i do not know whether to leave it if they are busy.
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Like I said, I have sent a message to Mrs Harley and she did not reply. I have not seen feed-back about it in the thread here. So i do not know whether to leave it if they are busy. Hit NOTIFY and let the MODS know. They can let Mrs. Harley know.
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I read this post and have notified the Harley's.
They may ask you to resend the email if they can't find it.
Be sure to check your email and, if you want to be a caller on the radio show, include your phone number.
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I read this post and have notified the Harley's.
They may ask you to resend the email if they can't find it.
Be sure to check your email and, if you want to be a caller on the radio show, include your phone number. OK I will wait to hear. Do I prepare a summary of my case and a question or how do I do this, ask for general advice on plan B?
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Exposure is actually PART of Plan A.
Carrot AND stick!
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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Exposure is actually PART of Plan A.
Carrot AND stick! Have you exposed peternoon?
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Exposure is actually PART of Plan A.
Carrot AND stick! Have you exposed peternoon? Yes, I said before I exposed (substantially) and my wife was so deep in the fog that she exposed herself with people at work and mutual friends thinking they were going to congratulate her for doing this to her family.
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