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Well, for you that have been following my life, I blew Plan B on Tuesday. H and I had some words and to say the least, it was VERY ugly.<P>Soooo, since we cannot yet 'get along' my parents have agreed to be the go-between w/ H and I during D visitations.<P>I sent him another letter today, and told him once again that we will not communicate and that a 3rd party will intervene.<P>He sucks all of my energy out of me, and this is the only way for me to get my feet back on the ground.<P>Just letting you know that I'm back on B and hopefully this time, it will work for me!!<P>God Bless,<P>Cheryl<BR>
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I'm so sorry, Cheryl... just wanted you to know that I read this just 'cause <B>you</B> wrote it and I care... am sending prayers for you right now!<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>
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How're you doing tonight?
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Sheryl,<P>You are so sweet. Thanks for those prayers. I ALWAYS welcome them. I'm praying for you too!!<P>Lori,<P>Just e-mailed you.<P><BR>Cheryl
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I am sorry you had to do this but good for you for taking a stand for your self. You don't need to be treated this way. I think you will stat feelin better when you don't have to deal with him. Maybe he will start taking you seriously. You are in my prayers.<P>Now come on to Sidney's for soup, wine and good conversation and a lot of laughs.
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Hang in there Cheryl. Just remember three little words NOTHING IS FOREVER.<P>That's what I keep telling myself. Keep shoveling, the horse has to be in there somewhere!
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SDS,<P>Thank you. I really feel good about this. My h has some major problems and I always seem to fall into his trap. I am hopeing that this will help me to get my mind straight.<P>sidney,<P>You are too funny. Yep, I'll keep shoveling!! Thanks for your thoughts.<P><BR>Cheryl
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Hi CeeCee -<P>I'm also glad that you have taken some steps with your folks being the 3rd party....this is great!!<P>I am glad to hear some strength from you also....Do you sometimes think that with each "awful" experience within this whole nightmare that we get a little bit stronger and the pain and anger last a little bit shorter each time? I have been feeling that way.....<P>You and Emma need some normalcy...this is a great step in that direction.<P>You can do Plan B and we will help you, who knows - maybe this will jar H a bit cuz it's not something that he is used to. <P>HUGS, PRAYERS and STRENGTH,<P>Sheba
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Hi Sheba,<P>Just got back from Lori's thread. It just keeps getting better and better-LOL.<P>Yes, I agree w/ you that we gain a little bit of strength everyday through this garbage. Right now, my h gets me so I don't know if I'm coming or going. It is not good for ANYONE, especially me!!<P>Who knows what will happen. My h has suca a huge ego, that it absolutely crushs him when someone doesn't like him. Soooo, maybe this will knock some sense into him and what he is doing. I'm still praying for him and me.<P>Thanks for your encouragement, as usual. You are a really good friend to me.<P>Cheryl<P>PS. Don't eat too many of the poptarts!!!
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No, I won't....it's not that time yet!!<P>(Geez, did I just type that? ACK!!)<P>Anyway, it's the BACON that does me in!!<P>I don't think that I can look at either one the same way ever again!!! LOL!!<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba
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