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Bad advice from the web.

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Divorce is way too stressful, so read this to make your life better...

If you are married and DO NOT want to get divorced but are interested in having an affair, then we want you to understand that You are NOT alone!

Go here to have an affair and not get divorced
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If you're not married and reading this message, then you can also join the !!!!!!!!!!!! to meet married people that would love to have a sexual relationship with you.


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Yuck.

Divorce would be kinder than having an affair!


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How lovely >sarcasm< Now companies are selling infidelity?? Yeah, like that would make anyone's life better. What a load of crap!

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How disgusting making money from infidelity. It's hard enough educating society without companies selling it as a lifestyle.
I've seen ads for "online married meeting groups" but never heard of something being sent to an inbox.

This sickens and angers me, if only those willing to jump on board knew the pain and devastation infidelity causes.


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Originally Posted by happyfuture66
How disgusting making money from infidelity. It's hard enough educating society without companies selling it as a lifestyle.
I've seen ads for "online married meeting groups" but never heard of something being sent to an inbox.

This sickens and angers me, if only those willing to jump on board knew the pain and devastation infidelity causes.

Sadly, many of them will know it soon enough. ..


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ICGB,

Sign up, arrange for a meeting at a motel, have their spouses waiting in the parking lot.

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It used to be pornography spam and that was bad enough, but this is mind-boggling. How can people who have these companies live with themselves?

It is probably bad but Gamma has a good idea. Someone should start a group where people pretend to be looking and bust these people!

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I was searching Google for "ways to show wife she is wonderful" and one of the first three hits was an article on why single men should date married woman, and how to do it.

The whole thing made me sick. Basically says to find woman who are HAPPY in their marriage but have weak boundaries...You don't want them to leave their family for you. I saw the exact same techniques used by WW's POSOM.

The only thing worse than the article were the user comments below the article. LOTS of support for this kind of behavior. I don't know why I read it being so early in R. Kinda put me in a bad mood for a bit.


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Post an anti-cheating message on the comments and watch the fun begin!


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Originally Posted by karmasrose
Post an anti-cheating message on the comments and watch the fun begin!

A bored and evil part of me wants to do that but I might throw up reading responses. I just found out one of my friends is being cheated on by her husband. I told her to come here.


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