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Hi everyone

I am sure I will be in the divorce thread soon. I have posted a thread on surviving an affair if anyone would be kind enough to post and advise me. I haven't had much advice and am desperate and so full of grief and sorrow.

My life is spiralling and I am at my lowest of the low and I don't know how to get up. Please help me thank you

Link to my post :

http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/u...flat&Number=2760316&#Post2760316


Me: FWW/BW - 38 yrs
XH: FBH/WH - 41 yrs
Plan B
DS: 9yrs old (with H)
DD: 20yrs old
Divorced Dec 2014
WXH still living with POSOW

Actions mean EVERYTHING.
Words mean NOTHING.
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You gave him the option to walk when you had your affair. He didn't go about the right way obviously, but he exercised the option you gave him. I looked at his old thread...I don't think your M has a shot. You guys are renters at best.

You did email the Harley's. I would love to hear what they have to say.


Me: BH, 36 Military Officer
FWS: 36, repeat offender
Married: Valentine's Day 1998
DD-15/ DS-10
Almost recovered and ahead of schedule

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