In response to previous questions: (see Internet Infidelity 11/5)<BR>-Wife is finishing second part of degree, she has one.<BR>-Yes we were married right out of college, I finished, she didn't. She has taken course off and on over last 10 yrs., is now finshed w/ 1st degree<BR>-OM works directly w/ her, she has to support his teaching. She works another part time job in field of study, but loves the teaching job.<BR>-If job new, they would both probably lose jobs.<BR>- Yes, she knows my feelings but thinks I am responsible for filling my own emotional needs. Which to a certain extent I agree.<P>We are working on the survey, she seems reluctant to fill out. She doesn't think that just because she has a lot of her conversation emotional needs met by others that it means she will fall out of love w/ me. I hope this is true & I guess believe it. She has problems thinking that the advise given on this site is true regarding relationships.<P>My problem is the lack of time spent together. We are working it out. I still think from time to time about the email exchange and the things said. I was tough reading them and it does make you wonder. She is a great lady and I think we have what it takes to get through this. I read about others & thank God I have what I do. I just think it can be more. I don't want to be on the shelf, taken down only when it suits her needs.