I learned of my H's betrayal a day ago. I was wondering how do you pick the pieces? I fill like I am in mourning I've lost something dear and tresured. It is like I can't bury it because I might not find another like it.<BR> I don't know if I want to continue on with my husband or try with someone else. In a way I know my H's faults and can work on them but if meet someone totally differnt I don't know him from Adam. Plus I feel that he would always be compared to my H. Help from anyone that had to pick up the pieces!