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My husband came back from a road trip and said that he wants our marriage and our life together to work. he says he is commited to working on "us" but offers no 100% guaranties. The biggest problem that I have right now is that he is going to be on the road soon and will be in the same town as this woman but won't say to me that he will not keep himself out of situations where something might happen. I can't trust his strength to hold off if a situation arises because he has already proven that he is weak. How do I go on? How long do I go on hoping that it will work out for us? He says he wants to be with me but refuses to end it with her. I am still so confused and hurt and all he can say is "get over it". How can I get over something that isn't over and he has no intention of ending completely.<BR>
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Untall,<P>Sorry you are having to go through this. I have a couple of suggestions. First if you are not in Plan A I would start. Cut down if you are not able to cut out lovebusting. Second ask to go with him on the trip. Take time off of work and see if the kids can stay with someone you trust and go with him. <P>ultimatly if he is not willing to end it with her you will need to go to plan B of no contact. I would give Plan A a try frist. <P>Just my thoughts. I hope someone who is in similar situation as you posts. Please do take care of your self most of all.
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