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Have been married for 19 years have two daughters 12 and 16
Wife had 2 year affair
Discovery date November 7
Wife was willing for a while verbally to work on repairing marriage but actions weren't to repair
She said yesterday she didn't know what she wanted , but knew she didn't want her affair partner.
She took our girls out of the home last night and they went to her parents.
I've stopped all communication with my wife and her family.
I was able to text my girls and let them know I love them and I love there mother.
Should I contact my attorney to file papers? Or should I let her file?
Last edited by CaptObvious; 12/08/13 07:13 AM.
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Since you refuse to take the advice on this forum, why would we give more advice?  Are you fishing for answers you like better?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Joined: Sep 2013
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You should file! Also tell your Children why.
Also if you want to play a bit Dirty to hopefully get a better outcome in your possible divorce have a free consultation with all the good layers in Town. That way they can't represent your wife.
ps. I know not very MB-ish advice...
Last edited by TOMTEN; 12/09/13 10:34 AM.
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Thats a good idea about consulting other lawyers.
In small towns that would be very advantageous
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