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#2771025 12/15/13 09:36 AM
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1st thing thank you for forum.my question,I have gut feeling wife cheating but I have no proof.she blocked me off facebook,never iniates sex arguement over nothing,locks i phone ,means spirit ,iphone always at her side.sits in backseat of car this is new so can't see her texting kids sit up front.ask her about saythis says I'm parnoid help.also drove her to get car she sat there I'm block away wondering were she was.get home ask if she was texting someone she went into fit of rage.its making me crazy trying find proof of affair .these thing I looked up under cheating wife. Signs point to cheating.what can I do?

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Originally Posted by z11
1st thing thank you for forum.my question,I have gut feeling wife cheating but I have no proof.she blocked me off facebook,never iniates sex arguement over nothing,locks i phone ,means spirit ,iphone always at her side.sits in backseat of car this is new so can't see her texting kids sit up front.ask her about saythis says I'm parnoid help.also drove her to get car she sat there I'm block away wondering were she was.get home ask if she was texting someone she went into fit of rage.its making me crazy trying find proof of affair .these thing I looked up under cheating wife. Signs point to cheating.what can I do?
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Do you have any spyware on her phone?

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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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No, she guards that and would no I messed with or downloaded anything on it.thanks

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Does she access facebook from a home computer?
If so you can place keylogger software on it.

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Do you have access to phone bills?
Also create a false facebook account so you can check her out
install a voice activated recorder and GPS unit in her car

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Thanks,ill try those things.I talked to her again about how I feel and she said would never do that to me.I'm thinking ok you wouldn't tell me anyway.reading stories here and I must be meeting some of her needs not all of course need to get help to understand why I'm getting that gut feeling somethings wrong.everyone on forum said there intuition was correct. hope I'm wrong but would be happy to know truth.been reading all day to get answers.thanks

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Z,

There is an entire forum called "operation investigate". Have you looked through those threads to see the best way to snoop?

Nearly all waywards lie when asked whether they are cheating. When I had suspicion, but no proof, my H looked me right in the eye and said that he was not cheating. He had been in a PA for more than 6 months.

Find out what is really going on.

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Have you asked her why she blocked you from Facebook? I'm curious of what she'd say her reasoning is


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Son 14
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She said I was spying.also going to read operation investigate.thanks

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She said I was spying.also going to read operation investigate.thanks

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Originally Posted by kilted_thrower
Have you asked her why she blocked you from Facebook? I'm curious of what she'd say her reasoning is


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She said I was spying.also going to read operation investigate.thanks



Biggest Red flag there is that she is a WW.

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What is a ww

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Wayward Wife


Me: BW, 57 fWH: 63 (Taffy1) Serial cheater
Presently on the Recovery Road, in the Online program.
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Originally Posted by z11
What is a ww
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FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.




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