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she has already brought the std home, nothing I can do about that now except treat it.
Me 32
Her 31
Kids 11,7,6
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They are they go to the same school, I have been talking to the other wife quite a bit actually just trying to help her deal with the turmoil these 2 have cause. 5 devastated kids, and who knows how nc really will go, I have no way of really knowing. You should NOT be counseling the OMW. You need to get into NC with this family right away. There is no way even begin the process of recovery until you do. You will probably have to move.
me-65
wife-61
married for 40 years
DS - 38, autistic, lives at home
DD - 37, married and on her own
DS - 32, still living with us
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I will stop contact with her as well then I did not know that.
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Kids 11,7,6
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Did you get STD/STI testing also?
W (me) - 40
H - 44
M 15 years, 2 kids
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Not yet ill be taking care of all that this week,.
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Kids 11,7,6
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She has an STD?
It is critical that you follow the guidelines in Surviving an Affair.
I think she's going to have to work with you or you may need to change jobs to be together.
She cant be alone or she will have another affair
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she has already brought the std home, nothing I can do about that now except treat it. You mean you both have an STI now?
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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