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Maybe she still loves you and needed to know you still care.
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Thanks sunny.im sick thinking stuff and need help.the glow is in reference to signs of cheating spouse being in love and happy.not from your spouse..I'm probably not understanding and misinterpreted the visual signs. You need to hire a PI.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Finally,tracked and have proof.what is best way to ask were did you go an why.I no it will be another lie .
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Finally,tracked and have proof.what is best way to ask were did you go an why.I no it will be another lie . You have proof of her affair, so you need to expose. Who is the OM?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Finally,tracked and have proof.what is best way to ask were did you go an why.I no it will be another lie . Finally,tracked and have proof.what is best way to ask were did you go an why.I no it will be another lie . No need to ask. What did you find out? Time to start planning exposure
Me 58: FWH (NC 32 yr), W 60, married 36 yr, DD 32
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The satellite changed position that caused false reading.the vehicle wasn't moved.glad I checked before I asked,what a nightmare.im trying to find something that's not there.I really need to ask if I've destroyed her trust how can I get it back?
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You need to uncover who she is having an affair with.
You are questioning your feelings because you are being gaslighted
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Hi.how can I uncover something that's not there.I no all signs are pointing to affair.Need move forward and get her trust back.
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Hi.how can I uncover something that's not there.I no all signs are pointing to affair.Need move forward and get her trust back. The best way to move forward would be to uncover the truth. Can you afford a PI?
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Yes I can afford pi.I've been watching closely and have no proof of affair.the car always there and know if its moved.also if om coming to my house my children would tell me.from reading and other friends that have gone threw this crap she would be away from house more and be completely unattached from me and the family.
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Yes I can afford pi.I've been watching closely and have no proof of affair.the car always there and know if its moved.also if om coming to my house my children would tell me.from reading and other friends that have gone threw this crap she would be away from house more and be completely unattached from me and the family. I'd hire a PI. They could probably get the goods very soon.
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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