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I love my husband, but he is highly sexual, an he does respect that I just don't like sex, I don't know what to do or even why I just don't like it?

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Originally Posted by Ahyaa
I love my husband, but he is highly sexual, an he does respect that I just don't like sex, I don't know what to do or even why I just don't like it?

How long married? Any kids? What is your marriage like? What are the biggest issues? How much time do you spend together?


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Well Were recently married for like 6months so far, but have been together for over 2 years, an even then sex wasn't interesting. One child an another on the way, an it just me, I just don't like having sex, an I don't know why, an we don't spend much time together lately he works out of state.

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Originally Posted by Ahyaa
Well Were recently married for like 6months so far, but have been together for over 2 years, an even then sex wasn't interesting. One child an another on the way, an it just me, I just don't like having sex, an I don't know why, an we don't spend much time together lately he works out of state.

A big part of the reason why is that he works out of town. Women need two things to enjoy sex: an emotional attachment to the man and the prospect of enjoyment. If those 2 criteria are met she almost always enjoys sex and doesn't mind meeting his needs even though sex is not a top need for her. You can't feel emotionally attached or even sustain the love in a marriage if you don't spend every night together.

Check this out: The question of the ages: How can a husband receive the sex he needs in marriage?


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Thank you!

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Dr. Harley also addressed this issue in the Q&A columns: http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5013b_qa.html



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