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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
The police called me, asking if my ex can pick my daughter up at midnight, I said I will be taking her to school in the morning. they said ok..

Do not give her any more custody than what is specified in your custody order

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This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.

Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed.

But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God." ( John 3:19-21)


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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So here I go again wife is gone, not sure for how long, there still is a lot of her clothes etc..here. I have to plan A now from a distance. I want to call her. I just want to know how will I handle this. I mean she wouldn't even look at me when she came Home. someone said she will miss her home after awhile. I look back at some of things that happen, a few times I think she wanted out of the A, she tried to go to church with me, the A was to strong. She used her friends baby one day as we playe with him it was great, she even had SF and thought about working on M, The A was to strong, All this was going on when I made 360 changes using DB, I know the A had to end and this is really the only way to do it. I had use the MB Exposure plan. Now I sit back and wait.

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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.

Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed.

But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through God." ( John 3:19-21)

awesome!


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Originally Posted by Jedi_Knight
Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
The police called me, asking if my ex can pick my daughter up at midnight, I said I will be taking her to school in the morning. they said ok..

Do not give her any more custody than what is specified in your custody order

No I wont.


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The affair is in a free fall. The cheaters are going crazy so that means you have inflicted a terrible blow. I predict she will be back soon enough.


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It appears everyone in my wife's support group is a wayward or BS. I find this interesting

I'm trying to find a way to get all pharmacy emails so I can send them a link


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I called the OM partner anonymously and left a message with the answering service that OM is posted on the internet as having an affair.
The answering service said, This will be relayed to the corporate staff. Are you sure you want me to write thsi into the call log?
I said, Yes, he wont mind.

OM partner owns several medical businesses. he's a businessman.

I also called and left messages on 3 local compounding pharmacy vocemails anonymously referring them to the Cheaterville post (his peers).




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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
It appears everyone in my wife's support group is a wayward or BS. I find this interesting

I'm trying to find a way to get all pharmacy emails so I can send them a link

I did a google search and have found the OM's brother, I believe. It has his email address. I will post this link and remove it in 2 minutes. If you look at the website, it seems the OM is in a band.

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Jedi, you are an exposure master!! rotflmao


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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I found the OM's church too. He is the music director. However, it is one of those "spiritualist" churches, if you get my drift. crazy Here is the link:

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That jedi is something else.


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You need to call the pastors of this church and expose to them first thing tomorrow

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I read something on his FB about some spirtual thing...This makes sense my wife is with the devil





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Originally Posted by Jedi_Knight
You need to call the pastors of this church and expose to them first thing tomorrow

AGREE.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
I read something on his FB about some spirtual thing...This makes sense my wife is with the devil

check this out: http://www.slctroy.com/html/slc_contact.html


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looks like some exposure time cheater


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yes. I will, They will get a link to it also


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The pastors should be personally called by you; you need to tell your story to them and ask them to use their influence to end their music ministers affair.

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I got the number. I will be calling.


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