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Praying for you! Dear Lord, please put a hedge of protection around our friend WD and protect him from the evil that surrounds him. Please show him your will and give him the strength to say and do the right thing. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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I know. My attorney called and told me everything that I have done. Went to his work , FB , Cheater Wed site etc... I kind of laughed. I think I will use this for some extra days off.


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D-day 2/13/14

Ephesians 5:11-13
11 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.
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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
I know. My attorney called and told me everything that I have done. Went to his work , FB , Cheater Wed site etc... I kind of laughed. I think I will use this for some extra days off.

I don't see anything illegal in anything listed.

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What happened????


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Exposure 101


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I'm still waiting to see the shrink.


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How did the conversation with your supervisor go?

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Hang in there, WD!


Me: BW, 36; WH: 37
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DD: 11/24/2013
Plan A (not properly done) since DD. Exposure to OW's friend and work on 03/25/2014. Lots of LBs.
Plan B (w/ MIL lives w/ me): started 4/4/2014. Exposed WH to most of our friends in early 05/2014.
Plan A before moving to CA as suggested by Dr Harley started 6/8/14.
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I gave your exposure a little boost today;



The purpose of this letter is to inform you that one of your nearby Business Tenants/ Church Officials/ neighbor has been posted on the world�s largest cheater exposure website for ongoing adultery.

A copy of the posting is attached; his details are below.
Name: XXXXX
Business address: XXXXX
Business Phone: XXXXX
Occupation 1: Pharmacist � XXXXXX
Occupation 2: Music Director � XXXX Church
Occupation 3: Wedding Band member � XXXX
Please be advised that this man is an enemy of marriage.
If you have further information about his cheating, please post it on www.Cheaterville.com.

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This might be a good time to let OP lead the way until we learn what is happening at his Job. We can't predict consequences to WD of third party actions.

Wishing you the best WD


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Praying for you! Dear Lord, please put a hedge of protection around our friend WD and protect him from the evil that surrounds him. Please show him your will and give him the strength to say and do the right thing. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

H and my prayer tonight.

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Originally Posted by armymama
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Praying for you! Dear Lord, please put a hedge of protection around our friend WD and protect him from the evil that surrounds him. Please show him your will and give him the strength to say and do the right thing. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

H and my prayer tonight.

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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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He was doing a great job in a very bad situation.

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Originally Posted by TheRoad
He was doing a great job in a very bad situation.
Yes he was.


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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
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He was doing a great job in a very bad situation.
Yes he was.

And he will continue doing a good job.

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Please let us know how you are doing WD, we are here to support you.


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I'm thinking of you WD.


What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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hope all is well WD


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WD,
You've been a warrior, and we are thinking about you, man.


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Originally Posted by Justthe3ofus
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You've been a warrior, and we are thinking about you, man.


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I'm really hoping you are not being fooled by the smoke and mirrors, used by waywards and enablers WD. It isn't illegal to tell the truth in any developed country.

I put truths in the newspaper every day. It's not libel. I knock on doors and ask questions. It's not harrassment. Beware of anyone who tells you different.



What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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