I do not see OM on cheaterville now.

He's probably been ordered by his work and/or advised by his attorney and/or work ordered psychiatrist to STOP doing all this and take down everything.

Might be an indication that OM knows about this place too. If so, he should be aware that this place is just the tip of the iceberg. There are 100's of decent folk in OM's real life that are now aware of his inappropriate behavior and praying he stops it. You may have shut the betrayed husband up but exposure keeps going and going and going.

If the original poster is reading and just can't post under threat of your job or whatever you might consider emailing the mods privately.

Godspeed,

Mr. Wondering

I'd second this. He can get specialist help this way.

Mr. W,
I was thinking the same thing. Someone accessed accessed this thread and WD's cover is blown so he can no longer post here.

The good news is, WD completed exposure and understands Plan A. If he buys Dr. Harley's books and reads them, he will gain the knowledge he needs to handle this crisis.

If you're reading this WD, one of the things we often say to those who are in Plan A is do it with no expectations. Give it your best shot. It may work and it may not. If it does you will save your marriage. If you can't save your marriage, at least you will know you did everything you could. And that will make you a much better person and husband in your next marriage.

God bless.

I think it's more likely he's been told to stop and anything he posts here thereafter would be a documented violation of his orders. I doubt anyone has found this thread...yet, but it's not worth risking your job over.

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I think he is on www.playerblock.com

I'm Back my friends, Wow!!! The last six days has been hell!!!

Mel,Indie,Jedi and just, anyone on???

WD, glad to see you're back. I've been following your thread.

I'm back, I just spent 5 days in the looney bin. My Ex wife who went to our employeer b/c when she called the police on me tuesday night and the police didn't do anything she took it up a notch, so I was ordered into work on wed for a simple psychological evaluation. They actually petitioned me by third party which is illegal and I ended up in an inpatient hospital for the mentally ill. It was like being in prison. They wanted to give me haldol, which is a psycosis drug. I did not take it. I was surronded by mentally ill people, who would scream at night and do bizare things..

What in the world????

The story goes like this my wife who was angry b/c I confronted other man. My wife thought it would be nice to contact my ex and tell her about our situation. So apparently when I talk to my wife on tuesday morning she had told me something was getting ready to happen, she then went on to say that it appears I've done this before with ex, saying same verbage. I just ignored most of that. So ex called police on me stating I wanted to harm myself and daughter. Police came and found it unfounded, they even called me back asking if I was going to do normal routine with daughter, I said yes and they were ok with it.

Absolutely unreal!!!

So glad to hear that you're ok.....

I'm SO relieved to see you posting again and know you're OK. You had a lot of us praying for you!!

I thought they could only hold you for 72 hours on an involuntary admission.

I then was ordered into work, and thats when the petition came into play. and the rest is history, It was by far the scariest thing I have ever gone through, I never new how much power a doctor has when it comes to your civil rights under the mental health laws. I of course read the mental health law book they gave me from front to back.

My wife apparently did not know they were going to petition me. She freaked out and called my cell 30 times and texted me a bunch asking how I was etc... I didn't respond and she then became worried. I finally was able to call her on thursday evening and thats when I was told they wanted me to take haldol. My wife was crying hard. She did tell me she tried call the hospital and they wouldn't release anything to her. She then said what do you need me to do, I said you need to come down here now and talk to the doctors...

72 hours is right, but it starts from the time you arrive at the impatient hospital, so you can be at a crisis center like I was for 30 hrs.

My wife did come down and talk to the doctor, she was a mess, crying etc.. she even told me she had know idea this was going to happen to me. She even told me she loved me. I continue to give her loe een through this horrific crisis I was going through. When she arrived at the hospital she embraced me hugging me, I told her I love her and she said I love you too. Don't worry, I didn't get all warm and fuzzy inside, apart of me was completely exhausted for any love for her. She talk to the doctor, however that doctor had no say in it, he could only recomend, releasing me the next day, but not his decision, that would be left to the department doctor.

Are you back home?

I was able to call my wife here and there and I continue to give her let her know that our marriage is still salvagble and we can rebuild it. She is still pissed about me confronting him. My wife came to visit me and she said that this all a cause of what I have done. I simply stated yes your affair has caused a big mess. she told me I harassed OM and his family, I stated yes he did harasse our marriage. during this visit I hear from her that he went and applyed for a PPO against me, or better known as a Restraining order. She said I can't stop him, I said thats fine I will fight it and I won't want you seeing him, she said she isnt. I don't believe it.