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My H's friend is ex-FBI and he is the only PI that I know of in our town. I am also wondering if I could trust a PI since they would seemingly know one another.
I want him followed and watched at a local gym, who and how long he talks with others. Is that something a PI will do?
Anyone hire a PI who could tell me about the process.
Thanks
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I absolutely wouldn't hire a PI who your husband knows. Try and find someone else.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I hired a PI from another town.
Found that my H is spending time each AM at the gym with one woman. They talk daily for about an hour. The PI indicated that they had not met outside the gym.
This fits the pattern and now I know. but what to do???
I don't know if I can stomach another "friendship".
Do plan A or plan B have validity when/if you don't know if you want the marriage?
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how did you decide on which PI to hire?
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