I'm so sorry. That must have been horrible for you to find. You definitely did the right thing and I agree w the others that there's no marriage to save here. I also agree that even if the camera thing was only recent, he had been having upsetting thoughts/feelings about your DD for quite a while to get there. I think I could forgive an awful lot, maybe even what he's done, but I could not remain w him and certainly not expose my family to him.