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Thanks. Our broadband is down so I can only access from my phone which is really temperamental. Will try to head to my mums tomorrow and try.
My first response 7 days ago to the affair was that I would call the husband. Have I fallen at the first hurdle?
Wow this is so hard and frustrating. I'm hoping in the coming weeks it will be easier to deal with day to day stuff as I just feel like falling in a heap 😢 So you haven't found OW's BH yet?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Yes I'm a Brit 
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What is ow and bh. All these abbreviations are confusing me.
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Wow this is so hard and frustrating. I'm hoping in the coming weeks it will be easier to deal with day to day stuff as I just feel like falling in a heap 😢 It's a long haul I'm afraid but with the plans you'll be in good shape. Don't worry you can do this and you haven't fallen at the first hurdle. I was rather afraid his fog babble had convinced you to do nothing though.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Yes I'm a Brit Both sugarcane and I are in the UK. Im a reporter so let me know what you've got and I'll help you snoop! What details? Name, address, number? Have you tried 192.com to get access for the electoral roll? It costs but is worth it. What is ow and bh. All these abbreviations are confusing me. If you go to the main forum there is a list of abbreviations. OW is other woman, BH is betrayed husband, you are the BW betrayed wife, you'll also need WH for wayward husband.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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What is ow and bh. All these abbreviations are confusing me. Here. Acronyms and Abbreviations
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Thanks guys. Indie girl I was trying to pm you but I can't.
I'm really struggling to get to grips with this.
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PMing is disabled. Ask the mods for my email if you need it. I wasn't asking for the specifics, just what type of info you had. But send me an email if you think I can help.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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I'm really struggling to get to grips with this. Very normal. (((((((((buttercup)))))))))))
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Have you found OW's BH yet?
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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