If you're both comfortable being apart, you aren't in love. I'm sure it's pleasant, comfortable and friendly, perhaps even sexual but it's not passionate romantic love where you would miss each other too much to do this.

Women often feel like something is missing when they don't have that level of integrated, inseparable lifestyle with a man. I find it interesting that she is tired of travelling.

I don't think I would like it if my H were OK with my not being there. Even though I understand from MB that men are much lower maintainance.


I think part of your Plan Aing should be to start telling her now how much you miss her and how much you would like her to be at home and will she discuss that with you. No matter what she says, just listen and take opportunities to make lovebank deposits.


What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.