I got it. I got her phone and took pictures with my phone of the chats in whatsapp. There was a looooooot... I love you's planing meetings, coments about how good their sex is, etc... I got all the proofs...
I want to full expose before telling her I know everything aboit the affair. He used to be her teacher and he still works for that school. Eventhough their affair started after she graduated it. I want to go to that school and hand in a letter to the dean and his department boss. I also want to expose to his co-workers and partners at work (eventhough i noticed that she visited his dental practice several times and they all lover her) but i dontknow if they know they have an affair.
They are deep in love. Very deep.
My wife saw me crawling putting the phone back in her nightstand and confronted me with what was I doing. I said nothing and said i didnt know her phone password.
I want to expose to her family, my family, his facebood friends, her closed facebook friends, and our employees innour office.
What are the recommended steps.
I am devastated abut cool as a cocumber and with very little hope she will want to work thingsnout afrer this but at least I know it will be impossible for them to continue their affair unless they decided to move to a different planet.
After she saw me i camly said dont worry everything will be fine, i told her that I love her and always have, i even caress a little with much compassion. I know that this is part my fault. I have been plan a her for more than two month. She had this huge emotional walls and now i see why.
The last thing they wrote to each other was her telling him she thinks i lnow everythinh then he asked her if it was ok to still go to do the dental implants and she said yes because i wasnt there...Please
You did fantastically well to get all this. Well done. I know how horrible it was for you to read these messages.
I don't understand this sentence. Please explain:
"I also want to expose to his co-workers and partners at work (eventhough i noticed that she visited his dental practice several times and they all lover her) but i dontknow if they know they have an affair.
They are deep in love. Very deep."
What does "I don't know if they have an affair" mean? Do you mean whether they have a policy against student/teacher affairs?
You need to get the phone again and install spyware on it. That way, even if she changes her password you will have records of what she is posting to him. She will tell you that the affair is over but they will continue to contact each other - I can guarantee that. Once you install spyware that will be the last time you need to touch her phone. DO NOT GET CAUGHT again touching her phone while you do this.
You need to go now to his Facebook page and copy his list of friends into a WORD file, so that you can send close, relevant friends a message about the affair. Copy this now before he blocks you from Facebook. You need to do the same for your wife before she blocks you too.
There are websites on which you can expose OM for his professional misconduct. Others will be along to help you with those but for now, please secure those Facebook lists for each of them, and try and install spyware on her phone.
You will only expose once you get the go ahead here. Do not fire off any messages until we are sure everything is lined up.
