So I don't really know how to start this. I married a compulsive liar. My wife and I have been married almost a year and it recently became undeniable to me that my wife will lie about anything. I feel that she might be emotionally unfaithful with her facebook friend, but I don't know how to talk to her about it. I know that if she is doing something with him she will never admit it. She knows I don't like him but she blames my insecurity. I have never been a jealous controlling boyfriend but I feel that I just can't trust her because I don't know how far she would go with him. I don't want to snoop through her facebook but I also think that's the only way I'll really know. Should I respect her space, knowing that I'm opening the door for her to cheat on me or should I check up just to verify. I know the answer seems obvious but I am kind of my wits end.

I've also recently found proof that my wife has been looking at pictures of women online. I have undeniable proof that she was the only one who could have done it but she insists that she is innocent and that I am just being insecure. This incident has affected my "insecurity" about the other incident.

I really feel overwhelmed by this situation and I would like some advice on how to proceed

Hi dontno, welcome to Marriage Builders. And yes, you should snoop on her. You have a right to know everything she does and if it takes snooping to do that, you should do it.

The reason you are "insecure" is because she has inappropriate relationships with men. That is how affairs begin. I would read this and share it with her: The Risk of Opposite-sex Friendships in Marriage

If she puts an opposite sex friendship before your marriage, your marriage won't last.

What spyware do you have on her devices?