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Thanks for encouraging people to seriously snoop. It confirmed what my husband said and made the twinges of "what if" go away. I knew that my husband was telling me the truth but the outside confirmation gave me my confidence back.
Gratefully,
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Thanks for encouraging people to seriously snoop. It confirmed what my husband said and made the twinges of "what if" go away. I knew that my husband was telling me the truth but the outside confirmation gave me my confidence back.
Gratefully,
Apples Dr. Harley recommends complete transparency. It's nice to live a marriage of complete interdependence.
FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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That's the beauty of snooping -- it confirms the truth, whatever the truth may be. It will either give you the peace of mind that you need, or it will give you the information you need to fight a danger to your marriage.
It is great to be informed.
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Apples,
If you look on an affair as a disease then it's no different from getting a monthly ultrasound.
God Bless
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Thanks for encouraging people to seriously snoop. It confirmed what my husband said and made the twinges of "what if" go away. I knew that my husband was telling me the truth but the outside confirmation gave me my confidence back. Awesome! I have always said that snooping creates TRUST.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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