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i'm brand new to this forum. i came here out of sheer desperation. i've been a horrible and emotionally distant husband for several years. i just found out that my wife had been carrying on a text/phone relationship with a guy for several weeks. i confronted her, she said she'd stop talking to him, and we began counseling. then several weeks later i found out she was still talking to him, using burner phones and phones at her office. we're trying to repair things, but the breach of trust (even though there was nothing physical) seems so great that i don't see a light at the end of the tunnel. please pray for some peace for me, and the ability to open my heart to reconciliation.
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Will do, Franklin.
Would you post this on the Surviving an Affair forum? You will get more attention and help over there from people who have been there and survived.
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Joined: Mar 2013
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"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)
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Father I pray for this couple. It is encouraging to know the husband understands there had been problems where he has been emotionally distant. Sometimes those things take time to heal and repair. I pray for the wife Lord that she would see the desire of the husband to keep their marriage together. I pray she would let go of her emotional fixes and continue in counseling to repair their marriage. In Jesus name, Amen
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FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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