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Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
When you go visit that POS, I would leave your pistol in the car just in case.
Gun possession is agains the law in the UK! If you're caught with a pistol in your car, you'll go to jail for a few years!

Leave it at home, then!!! sigh


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Mister,

Big talk from a weak H if you need a gun to make your point. You're only married 3 years and now another man in her life! Best you move on. Have you read or paid attention to anything on here??

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There's no reason he can't save this marriage if he wants to, Tom.


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Originally Posted by Tom2010
Mister,

Big talk from a weak H if you need a gun to make your point. You're only married 3 years and now another man in her life! Best you move on. Have you read or paid attention to anything on here??

Tom

Did you even read this thread?

I find this comment offensive. I have never heard wedding vows that said "unless one of you cheats within the first 3 years of marriage" after the "'til death do us part".

Perhaps I'm mistaken but, I have not seen anything from Dr.Harley that says you should just give up if you've only been married for a short time.


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Originally Posted by Mister
My family could be an issue, my Dad actually doesn't know about the first exposure (just my mum) as he'll try to get involved and start all kinds of trouble with WW and OM.

GOOD!! You should have exposed to your dad before the party or have brought him to to the party to kick OM's teeth in. Expose already!! I would bet $100 that WW did have sex with OM on Friday...he had a room and you did not watch WW the whole time. Wake up, Mister! Scare this POS off once and for all.


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Originally Posted by Tom2010
Mister,

Big talk from a weak H if you need a gun to make your point. You're only married 3 years and now another man in her life! Best you move on. Have you read or paid attention to anything on here??

Tom
This poster did not bring up the issue of a gun. That was a joke made by ML.

This is a ten year marriage with a two year-old daughter.


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I apologize to Mister and you all for my statement about any gun - I missed the joke. However, from his by-line he has been married only 3 years. He needs you support, but needs to do some work,

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So, how are you doing?

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I take your point about the byline. He does appear to have been married for only 3 years. I took the ten year figure from his first post to the thread:

Originally Posted by Mister
I asked her to stay and work things out, I still love her deeply and couldn't just let her walk away from a 10 year marriage and our 2 year old daughter.
However, there is a child of the marriage, and therefore it is not advised for him to walk away quickly.


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