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idk where to start... Ive been married for 6 years. Both parties have multiple cases of infidelity through out the marriage. Last incident my wife was caught cheating about a month ago. She resents me and tells me I dont deserve her for the wrong Ive done to her. Its been almost 30-45 days she informed of the divorce. I have not received paperwork yet. We still live together with our 2 year old daughter. MB have been a huge help on my behave but not for my wife she dont want to engauge to try and save the marriage. I want to save my marriage more then anything in the world! Should I stay and keep trying to save the marriage or just leave? It breaks my heart my daughter will be raised in a 2 family home. Both if us was raised in 2 family homes....  I appreciate feedback and questions.....
I am broken.....
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Joined: Jun 2008
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Welcome to MB
Can you provide a brief timeline of the affairs you and your WW have had, with who and the duration?
Did you two cheat on each other before you married?
Your thread should be moved to the Surviving an Affair Forum
BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011
Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt
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Sad,
Start with yourself since you have the most control over yourself, end all of your opposite sex relationships now. End whatever behaviors caused you to have affairs in the first place, if it is playing on line games, flirting with girls at the office or whatever.
Read the threads here on MB, I think many of them will speak to you.
God Bless
Gamma
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