You'll hear what Dr. Harley says about these websites.

Here she's a homewrecker.com

Cheaterville is the website that alot of posters have used. We've seen great success when posters have posted the OM or OW on there.

Cheaterville is a good Addendum to your full blown regular exposure.

It does Not take the place of you personally doing the work needed to contact All parties who may have influence over your WW, the POSOM or also to provide you support for your war against breaking up your family.

The longer you hesitate, the harder it is to distrupt with as much impact as possible and the weaker your position becomes.

LTL

Just an update. I sent an e-mail to Joyce Harley detailing my situation. She took a keen interest in the situation and had me on MB Radio on Friday 1-9-2015. Dr. Harley reviewed my situation and stated that I had two choices. Since it appears that my WW is a serial cheater, I could either divorce her or try to work to win her back. At this time, I'm trying to work on the latter path via Plan A, however, breaking the affair is where the main issue currently lies. The current affair is entrenched and WW is not willing to break off the affair and continues to state that she wants a divorce. My main issue is working to end the affair while enhancing my appeal to my WW, without looking like I'm weak and rewarding her after her affair. She has not expressed any true remorse for her affair to-date and continues to maintain contact via phone and text with the OM. She also sees him in person for short stints on occasion. The advice I received from the Harleys was mixed, as they were not on the same page with actions for me to take going forward. I feel that Joyce had a better grasp on my situation than Dr. Harley during the MB Radio segment. I appreciate them taking the time to speak with me and I'm looking forward to reading 'Surviving an Affair' as soon as it arrives, along with additional information the Harley's send me.

I have also posted the OM on Cheaterville and HesAHomewrecker, however, the posts are still awaiting review and its been over 10 days since I posted. Do they tend to get that backed up on reviews?

I will listen to this later today - but what did Dr H say you should do about the continued contact between them? Did he recommend doing anything more to cause trouble in the affair, or have you done all you can for now? Is your remaining strategy, in Plan A to, wait out the affair and try and win her back?

10 days seems like a pretty long time. nmwb77 posted on cheaterville several times because they kept hiding his post. I don't think any of his re-submissions took more that 2-3 days to be posted.

That is a long time. Go into your account and see what the status is. If you don't have an account, create one and submit the story again. Shesahomewrecker takes 7-10 days it says. Try resubmitting if the story doesn't show up today.

On Cheaterville, my 1st post was rejected due to my entering the OM's first name and alias in the same field. After I fixed and re-submitted a new ad, its just been sitting awaiting review. I contacted them about it and I'm awaiting a reply. As for HesAHomewrecker, I'm just awaiting them to review and post. Since I posted to both sites just after New Year's Day, I thought they might have a bit of a vacation backlog.

Dr. Harley did mention trying to possibly bring legal trouble onto the OM, but not sure if that's very possible in this state. Will need to check with my lawyer. Otherwise, my current strategy is to continue with Plan A and try to gradually win my WW back. I anticipate a long road ahead with this plan, however, I'm a patient and methodical fellow.

I had trouble with cheaterville. The posts are easily removed it seems.

Also try:
liarscheatersrus.com
badboyreport.kr
playerblock.com

Thanks so much for the additional links. I've already posted OM on playerblock.com - they seem to post almost anything. Will post to the others mentioned. Any others?

Added posts to liarscheatersrus.com and badboyreport.kr - any other popular cheater related sites that I should consider posting the OM on?

Here's your show.

Radio Clip of LongMarriedGuy's Show

I heard your show. Tough to be put on the spot about being spontaneous! I felt right in your shoes when Dr.Harley was asking you about it. For me, I think I'd have to put a lot of thought into something that's supposed to be spontaneous.

BrainHurts, thanks for posting the radio segment.

Face1, yes, Dr. Harley really put me on the spot asking that question. Really didn't expect that since I'm really focused on trying to break the affair and was trying to focus on ways to get the affair broken. Unfortunately, in my case, I believe it will have to take time for the affair to run its natural course to conclusion, since the affair seems to be entrenched for now.

BTW, any other popular cheater related sites that I should consider posting the OM on?

Added posts to liarscheatersrus.com and badboyreport.kr - any other popular cheater related sites that I should consider posting the OM on?

I've had issues getting posts on cheaterville and hesahomewrecker - I suspect that I'm not providing enough salacious details and that's keeping the posts off their sites.