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the datable men? I can give you a laundry list of where single women are but have yet to find a list of place other than online to find middle age 40-55 year old men.
any ideas?
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the datable men? I can give you a laundry list of where single women are but have yet to find a list of place other than online to find middle age 40-55 year old men.
any ideas? Why not on line? If that is where they hang out, go and take a look. Match.com is pretty good if you do your own searches and use the filters. If you just sit back and see who contacts you, you will get flotsam and jetsam. Think of on-line searches as being much like a cocktail party. If you stand passively at the back of the room you will get the predatory married men To find a gem, you have to go into the middle of the crowd and start initiating conversations. Learn how to ask good questions and pay attention to the answers.
3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
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the datable men? I can give you a laundry list of where single women are but have yet to find a list of place other than online to find middle age 40-55 year old men.
any ideas? I can tell you where there are a lot of men in that age range: on bicycles and running on trails. They go to bed early so they can be at the gym at 5:30 in the morning. Sign up for a 5k race and you will see them.
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Have you read Dr Harleys article on dating 30 men in a year?
When I suggested this to a friend she announced it to everyone (including Facebook) she knew! This meant men felt more emboldened to ask her out and friends all set her up. It got so that friends of friends were hooking her up.
She works in PR can you tell?!
She got married to no 14 last summer. After all the work to meet new people he was some one she'd known in college. He'd always held a torch for her and heard the news she was looking.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Loads of them here in Thailand!
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Loads of them here in Thailand! I've heard there are a lot in Alaska too.
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They are all over. Also the wrong men. So be sure to look where you will find an acceptable guy. Bars and the alike usually attracts the lazy drinking men...so I wouldn't go there first. About dating 30 men...date until the right one shows up. Then stop. Also remember that the other side of love is jealousy - dating isn't going all the way... The right one is out there - be visible 
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Dating 30 ! woo woo... stop there I say ? :-)
Well.. long story short - went through hell and back... and i am happy i didn't give up. It was on the brink of collapse... lost weight and everything, but turned around. It was amazing turn around. But now happy.. with 2 kids and going strong ! Thanks for all the souls who helped me then ! One thing I realized is - yes you do need expert help !
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