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I'm back. After a stupid lie a few days ago, where he told me, "I only said that to make you feel better" - I had enough and scheduled the polygraph. He's taking it right now.
The alcohol hasn't been a problem for a while. We're still working through Love Busters.
I'll be back with his results later.
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I'm back. After a stupid lie a few days ago, where he told me, "I only said that to make you feel better" - I had enough and scheduled the polygraph. He's taking it right now.
The alcohol hasn't been a problem for a while. We're still working through Love Busters.
I'll be back with his results later. I'm glad you scheduled the polygraph. Let us know how it goes.
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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it concerns me that you have been here since 2012 and nothing has changed. Do it differently this time. The polygraph is a good start. He won't change unless he knows you are serious this time around.
me, DH
5 children
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He passed the poly. So no more cheating during engagement and no infidelity in the marriage.
Happyheart, a lot has changed, but he still has a problem with lying. He now knows if I suspect he's lying, I'll be a lot quicker to get a poly done.
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