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I know my wife will have resentment and I understand that but can I cope with a sexless future ? We don't help men cope with a sexless future here. We help them work the plan that actually brings about intimacy in marriage. We help them see that even though they have done all they can think of, they haven't done everything. Step one is for you to break off contact with your affair partner, for life. Are you willing to do this? So you have no strategy to help men cope with a sexless future just your plan to bring about intimacy I have read through and employed all the processes of building up deposits in the love bank etc and you think I haven't done everything!!. I have spent twenty years depositing my heart into the love bank. It is certain my wife will never have sex again. I took a vow of marriage not celibacy. I know the first step would be to end my affair forever and yes I will do that. What I wanted was some indication if the love buster of being denied intimacy could be overcome and what strategy could be used I doubt it because you called them techniques. And spend your time getting another woman in live you with you. I am sure you tried HARD but that is not the same as being effective.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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