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Originally Posted by happyheart
It is her 10y-old stepson, the OC from his last affair if I understand this correctly, whose mother OW cannot take care of him, because she is a basket case.
No, it is the ss AND her own son.


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Originally Posted by LadyAngel1966
He co-parents with of mother and he can't stand her.
Our adult children do know about her. Our son and ss live with them. Daughter is living with her bf and their child.
Your son and your ss live with whom?


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Originally Posted by LadyAngel1966
They live with h and ow
Omg,she's on my sons Facebook friends list.

Tried all suggested ways to find ow h and couldn't find him.


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If she is in seminary, committing adultery would be grounds for dismissal. Presumably she is active in her local church as well. Both of these institutions need to know what she is doing so they can protect others from being victimized by her.

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Normally I am somewhat hesitant about cheaters.com etc., but in this case, I think her future sheep would like to know what kind of shepard will be leading their flock.


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After a bit of research I informed both her church and her learning institution.
Started plan B last night.


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Just found out the ow, thinks he's divorced (was contacted by one of her Facebook friends.


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Originally Posted by LadyAngel1966
Just found out the ow, thinks he's divorced (was contacted by one of her Facebook friends.
Okay good. Now expose on her side. See your WH has lied and said you're already divorced. Exposure will get the truth out there.


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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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