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My husband and I have been fighting...and arguing... He seems like a different person now. He yells at me for no reason.... I recently slept with someone...and am unsure whether or not I should tell him... I think he will hurt me if I do.
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Don't tell him if he is going to possibly hurt you. Wait until you are sure that he will not. Are you in a DV situation? Has he hurt you before? Will he find out some other way about your betrayal? First of all be safe!<BR>Ginn
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DV? Not sure what that means... He has been violent in the past.... I know it would kill him to know..
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Jo Lee, DV stands for domestic violence. How violent has he gotten? Has he hurt you? There are people out there that can help. Just be careful. I wouldn't tell him if it puts you in harms way. Not now. He needs help if he is violent. My H used to have an anger problem but he got help for it and is no longer having problems with anger. He never hurt me nor would he. But he did get in trouble for his anger. There is help out there but I got to tell ya the stats. for men with DV problems are not good. The help for these guys is improving. Was he raised in a violent home? <BR>Ginn
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Ginn,<BR> His family well...they were awful. He was ignored as a kid....no excuse...but has got something to do with it. He has hit me before..a few times. He has toned it down a lot. Mostly all he does now as yell at me. I have a three stirkes and your out deal with him now..... He has 2 left... Then my father gets involved....and my uncles... I know you cant solve violence with violence...but its always good to know someone has got my back if I should need help. I don't think I can tell him yet anyway.... I am not ready.... Even if he doesnt blow up.... The guy keeps iming me.....it kills me...but I just ignore him... I have to.
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