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Met a woman of substance and strong character who shares much of the same interests as me. Becos of proximity between us our conversations are strictly platonic and over the wire. She's a beautiful thing both exterior and interior makes me wanna be a better man and show some class you follow me. I can't get no satisfaction at home last year I asked my wife if she could put a family picture together and I got nothing where's the picture in my back pocket? My sister sent a family picture neighbour next door sent me a family picture. Maybe I think I'm more important than I really am, don't wanna feel sorry myself but it's the truth for Christmas I got no family photos. That being said as I talk to the new lady I laugh all day it's a beautiful thing.
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Met a woman of substance and strong character who shares much of the same interests as me. Becos of proximity between us our conversations are strictly platonic and over the wire. She's a beautiful thing both exterior and interior makes me wanna be a better man and show some class you follow me. A "woman" who trifles with a married man is not a woman of substance and strong character. Her substance is garbage because no decent woman carries on with a married man. All you are doing is showing yourself to be a person of bad character and setting yourself up for more affairs in your future by hanging out with a woman who has no respect for marriage. You clearly are not thinking clearly and are making a fool of yourself. You have every right to get divorced. Go for it. But don't act like a fool on your way out.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Met a woman of substance and strong character who shares much of the same interests as me. Becos of proximity between us our conversations are strictly platonic and over the wire. She's a beautiful thing both exterior and interior makes me wanna be a better man and show some class you follow me. I can't get no satisfaction at home last year I asked my wife if she could put a family picture together and I got nothing where's the picture in my back pocket? My sister sent a family picture neighbour next door sent me a family picture. Maybe I think I'm more important than I really am, don't wanna feel sorry myself but it's the truth for Christmas I got no family photos. That being said as I talk to the new lady I laugh all day it's a beautiful thing. Good luck with her. You'll need it.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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He'd have to change jobs since it seems to be the fad swapping wives for teenie boppers. H boss left the wife for a woman from a poor country 23 younger there have been a few others at his work that have done the same. Suggestibility is a problem for H. Can't think of a reason he should stay in a corrupting environment where women are valued for their age. You are who your friends are, sincerely I love him and am repented for what I did. But how do I get him to contact me/MB? So all his friends are like this? Sometimes the truth sets us free in surprising ways.....
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Trifling my marriage where did that come up from all the girl does is phone me askingfor advice- what colleges and universities to attend, how to fix a computer etc. at home it's nothing but complain complain then out to the bar with her girlfriends I get no respect in my own home. Now my wife wants me to give up someone who seeks and appreciates my help. come off your high horse a minute listen to me for a second. Let me tell you something my mother told me to get away from my wife before we married and I disrespected mom by getting married to W this I admit to. Gotta tell you mother says that she's been hearing good things about this new girl and moms way counts! You understand! This girl won me and I'm not going to give her up so there's your answer.
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You were brave to tell him the truth when you were afraid, but after reading his posts, I don't think you have much there with him that's worth the trouble of trying to save.
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Trifling my marriage where did that come up from all the girl does is phone me askingfor advice- what colleges and universities to attend, how to fix a computer etc. at home it's nothing but complain complain then out to the bar with her girlfriends I get no respect in my own home. Now my wife wants me to give up someone who seeks and appreciates my help. come off your high horse a minute listen to me for a second. Let me tell you something my mother told me to get away from my wife before we married and I disrespected mom by getting married to W this I admit to. Gotta tell you mother says that she's been hearing good things about this new girl and moms way counts! You understand! This girl won me and I'm not going to give her up so there's your answer. A "woman of character" does not develop relationships with married men. No one here is going to support you in your new relationship, so what did you need from us? We can either help you get divorced or help you stay married, but this not the right place to explore new relationships while you are MARRIED. What do you need from us?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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You were brave to tell him the truth when you were afraid, but after reading his posts, I don't think you have much there with him that's worth the trouble of trying to save.
tl AGREE
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Last edited by Denali; 07/10/15 04:15 PM. Reason: TOS distraction
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