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Husband and I decided to move back into our home, it all started off wonderfully with the two of us working on MB material. That is until I awoke to find him not in bed so I got out of bed and found him sitting at his computer staring at a photo of ex ow. This was quite shocking especially after all the progress covered. Sex wasn't an issue and we went out on dry dates to the movies, Starbucks, miniature golf etc. then I discover him looking at a picture of his ex lover.

The excuse was that he was merely getting her out of his system by gazing at her as he put it. Promptly begged for forgiveness during his moment of weakness and asked for another chance. Promising never to look at her again, immediately all photos of her were cleared and discarded. Problem is how do I know that he is not looking at her during work.

Do we just carry on with our reading materials and act as if it never happened assuming that he isn't looking at her pic. I've heard of men loving women other than their wives for an eternity how do I know that he isn't one of them. Yes he looked into my eyes and begged for forgiveness telling me that he truly loves me and not his ex-lover.

My confidence is shot, since ow is younger than me and works/d as a fashion model. What do I do my faith is shot and its easy to start over again but trust is the issue. What do I do?

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Originally Posted by hopelessnworried
What do I do?
If anything you have written is real, you should get a divorce. If you ar trolling, you should delete your account.


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