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I only realised i was married to a sex addict about 6 weeks ago. I had initially thought the first 2 DDays were ONS till i discovered a secret phones and tons of women, orgies, sex parties and more. He moved out immediately and its been difficult for me but i am holding up. Recently discovered an STD and then last week one of his women says she is pregnant.
Of course he said he as sorry but from now i dont believe anythig he ever says. There was also some trickle truth which made everything much worse. He has joined an SA group, but as we are not living together and i recently started NC, i do not know how far he has gone there or if he still goes anyway.
I have joined COSA and S-anon and would say that is what is keeping me sane right now. Anyone going through something similar or who went through something similar please do share.
Me: BS
HIm: WH sexaddict with over 40 women
1 child (2.5years)
DDAY1: 2011 April (claimed ONS)
DDAY2: October 2014 (lost pregnancy as a result). Claimed ONS
DDAY 3: September 2015. Found out previous DDay confessions were lies, sex with over 40 women, gave me STD
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I'm so very sorry.
Do you want to stay married? Have you ever emailed Dr. Harley?
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Joined: Oct 2014
Posts: 13
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Dear Brainhurts, Not sure yet. I am still so hurt and confused that i havent been able to make a decision. We are currently separated, and he wants to reconcile, but for now i know i want to remain separated but not sure of divorce down the line.
How do we email Dr Harley?
Me: BS
HIm: WH sexaddict with over 40 women
1 child (2.5years)
DDAY1: 2011 April (claimed ONS)
DDAY2: October 2014 (lost pregnancy as a result). Claimed ONS
DDAY 3: September 2015. Found out previous DDay confessions were lies, sex with over 40 women, gave me STD
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Email your questions to Joyce Harley at mbradio@marriagebuilders.com. When your email question is chosen to be answered on the radio show, you will be notified by email directing you to listen to the rebroadcast. If you would like to consider being a caller, include your telephone number. You will be called by us to explain the procedure to you. Every caller will receive a complementary book by Dr. Harley that addresses their question.
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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