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I'm just wanting to tell my story and vent a bit. I'm divorced, my ex was a verbally abusive man who I was married to for 25 years. Yeah, I know, my own fault. The only reason why it lasted that long was 1. My 2 boys. 2. He worked 3 to 11 so we crossed paths only on weekends. My boys are now older and understand. I remarried my high school sweetheart who should have been my husband of 25 years. Im Happier than ever... But... Yeah, there's always a but...he has health issues and has ED. The first year was great, he was taking [censored] meds unbeknownst to me. Truth came out, the meds aren't really working anymore, he feels awful and guess what? So do I. It just figures, the bum I married I didn't want to have ANYTHING to do with sexually, and my husband who I can't get enough of ... Can't. Yeah....
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Has he been to a good doctor?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Yes, he has been to a doctor. He needs to lose weight, which as I know, is not easy at 52 years old. He is trying but it's such a slow process. I need to ask for what I need sexually, but I still haven't got over this initial BUMP, I guess I'm just really sad right now. We have been together 2 1/2 years.
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Yes, he has been to a doctor. He needs to lose weight, which as I know, is not easy at 52 years old. He is trying but it's such a slow process. I need to ask for what I need sexually, but I still haven't got over this initial BUMP, I guess I'm just really sad right now. We have been together 2 1/2 years. Are they putting him on a new medicine along with diet and exercise or just needs to lose weight? How much UA time are you getting?
FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Also....does he look at porn and/or masturbate? Have you snooped?
Long term masturbation habit causes ED.
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No new diet, he's just tryin to cut back on the junk food. No porn or masturbation, I have checked. I'm getting plenty of UA, we are very affectionate, he meets every other need. I know I meet his too. I told him today, at breakfast, I miss that sexual part of our relationship, that's all I said so we will see what happens. I don't want to "beat a dead horse" so to speak... Lol. You have 7 children between you both, wow, that's s juggle ... How old is your oldest?
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No new diet, he's just tryin to cut back on the junk food. No porn or masturbation, I have checked. I'm getting plenty of UA, we are very affectionate, he meets every other need. I know I meet his too. I told him today, at breakfast, I miss that sexual part of our relationship, that's all I said so we will see what happens. I don't want to "beat a dead horse" so to speak... Lol. How much UA time are you getting a week? What are you doing on your dates?
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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We are together ever night after work and weekends. We have a great time together, going to concerts, movies. We are best friends. I know I need to bring this subject up again. It's been 3 months now and no sex. I did say something last week, of course, we both have the flu since then so that put a damper on me bringing it up again. This just sucks! I adore him and would love to have our sex life back.. Ughh
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