Didn't mean to take away from Mary's thread, only to add my experience so she knows she's not alone.
But also that the people who have been down this road before know what they're talking about. If your husband can't acknowledge his alcohol consumption is a problem for his marriage, things will not get better.


BW-30
WH-31
2 kids 3&7

Affair began Oct 2014
D-Day April 2015 (because OW husband friended me on FB to tell me eventually, so WH admitted "bc he had to be the one to tell me")
Affair "ended" April 2015??? Don't have exact date, it wasn't a solid ending as he told her every time it would never happen again and never sent closure letter
WH blames affair on alcohol