When you wait an entire month to reply, it is not likely people are going to bother to engage you in a continuing conversation.

So, did you email Dr. Harley at mbradio@marriagebuilders.com?

Also when you don't actually reply to advice, but rather continue to blog. This is not a blogging site, it is an action site. Are you interested in taking action or just blogging?

Why have you dated for so many years, having 3 children together, without getting married?

Well we dated for many years without getting married for a couple reasons. She insisted i dont ask her to marry her (i wanted to from day but always took what she said to heart) for majority of tgis time saying she will say no. Than when she finally said she wanted to she said she would only say yes if its a 1 carat solitaire or bigger. I got a 7/8 flawless diamond that sent me back a pretty penny. But as i type this i know people say dont use this as a blog etc. but things were going very well with us for a while now. She got in a big fight woth her mom today about her mom drinking to much and simultaneously i went to work she took kids by a friend and now we are broke up she said its easier. Little back story we were staying st her moms bevause her mom doesnt have a job and couldnt afford to keep house with out us. So now i am also with out a place to go tonight cant go home to kids cant go home to her cant go to her moms its to late to find a friends house to stay at. I dont know if i am freaking out to much or should i consider that she was mad at her mom and didnt truly mean we were done. I dont know i know her froend does not like me and is probably happy as hell shes been asking her to leave for ever. I am having a hard time keeping it together we have been planning the future lately, our daughters 8th bday party in less than a month, camping trip, and a mini vacation to a waterpark as well. Should i worry less and consider this more her mom than me? Is there a chance we stay together. I can not imagine life with out her she is everything to me. I did tell her afterwards this evening that if we get together it cant be pretend to be with me subday-thursday than pretend to play like i dont exist on the weekends anymore and im pretty scared about this she is very stubborn. She wont say she loves me in front of her friebds which i think is a issue since she plays it both ways.