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You are basically saying you would prefer the company and friendship with about any other man than your husband (which in the bible would be an affair of the heart) while quoting scriptures at us!
Your heart is as wayward as they come and you are already committing infidelity in every way but physical.

This program could give you an amazing, romantic, in love marriage for life even if it seems impossible now- but you would prefer your guy friends. Your choice.
Just don't tell us that's following God. [/quote]

Uh, no, I'm not saying that at all. I don't have anything against my husband. I don't prefer the company of "any other man" over his. He has his strengths and good qualities, and I appreciate and encourage those. There are things I do enjoy doing with him. I just don't want the sexual aspect.

You're putting words in my mouth, and I don't appreciate that.

I am just not comfortable with the tactic of isolation and conditioning.

Good! Marriage Builders doesn't use such tactics.

That's exactly what this sounds like. Isolating myself from all other men so that the man I married unwillingly is the only one in my life, so that I will "fall in love" with him, because I have nothing else to compare him to? Uh, yeah. That's basically simulated Stockholm Syndrome, without a gun to my head.

I already tried that.

ImpossibleGirl, Participation in this program is voluntary. If you do not wish to use this program, we will lock this thread. The purpose of this forum is to help posters with their marital problems using this program. If you are not here for that purpose, there is no reason to keep this thread open. Did you need help with the program? If not, we will lock the thread.

Very well, go ahead and lock it.

Let me know if you decide to use the program and we will unlock it. We wish you the very best.