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Hello all,
It's been a while since I've stopped by and life is good. I have a question.
H and I moved to a small town for work a month ago. He works with all men. In the past year, one of those men (OM) had an affair with another coworkers wife (BH and WW).
BH did nuclear exposure and OM was sent away from the town by human resources (BH said get him out before I kill him myself).
So, anyways, WW seems very keen to be friends with me. On one hand, I feel uncomfortable. After all, I know she is willing to betray her H like that, with a guy he used to sit next to all day? Yikes. On the other hand, my H says it's a good idea to support them in recovery by her forming positive friendships. As you can imagine, the other women don't trust her to be around their families.
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Last edited by alis; 10/27/16 07:09 AM.
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I am friends with former WW, but I happen to know they made full amends and are not a danger. I would avoid a WW I was not sure about. Your marriage is much more important that her "recovery." She is a known danger and I would avoid her.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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