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Then we probably get less than half of the 31 hours we spend together on UA. So this may be the reason he had the PA? The reason he had a PA is because he likely has poor boundaries around women. Is this his first affair?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Yes, this was his first affair. I use to work with both of them years ago and I saw the way she hung all over my WH but I trusted him, and I was so na�ve.
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I actually make good money and could take care of myself. We have no children together and I could leave him but I want to make my marriage work because I love him and I'm still in love with him and believe he loves me and wants to be with me. I just want to take extra precautions so it doesn't happen again.
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Yes, this was his first affair. I use to work with both of them years ago and I saw the way she hung all over my WH but I trusted him, and I was so na�ve. Physically hung all over him?
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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She would sit on his desk and flirt with him. I told him that I knew she wanted him but he would reassure me that he would never go there. I fully believe that if she wasn't so forward with him this wouldn't have happened because I don't think he sought it out, it was just too easy and convenient for him.
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