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#2893985 02/05/17 08:50 AM
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My husband is self employed, business is main source of income. We are 70 and don't have enough money to retire. He has had an affair with his business partner for 15 years. What should be done to continue the business, we have to have the money?

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My suggestion would be to seek psychological counseling to help you learn to make better decisions. Why would a mature lady choose to live like this? You are old enough to know better. You have known about the affair for YEARS according to previous posts.


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Who are you and what have you been through?

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Originally Posted by Mia1948
Who are you and what have you been through?

Much more than you. Why would you choose to live like this?


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Are you a Christian?

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Originally Posted by Mia1948
Are you a Christian?

What does this have to do with anything?


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I really would like an answer to my question. Why do you choose to live like this?

Originally Posted by MelodyLane
My suggestion would be to seek psychological counseling to help you learn to make better decisions. Why would a mature lady choose to live like this? You are old enough to know better. You have known about the affair for YEARS according to previous posts.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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