About 20 years ago, I found out about my ex's long term affair with my best friend. I stayed until the kids were almost gone and found the love of my life, the one that got away. And after 5 years together(2 married), I find myself seeking the self help I found on a board similar to this.
I do not believe my current has been unfaithful physically (Seattle/LA would be hard to pull off). I started looking into this in with a suspicious mind in mid Jan. I do believe she has been in falling into an emotional affair with one of her college ex's.
My Evidence:
Texts
1 day of 25 texts in Sept/October cell bill.
5 days of 193 texts in Oct/ Nov bill
9 days of 518 texts in Dec bill
4 days of 149 texts in Jan bill (which suddenly stopped with 8 days left in the bill cycle)
4 days of 1 text each in Feb bill
Calls
Jan- 3 for 108 Minutes
Feb- 18 for about 9 hours total
Meetings
- based on phone GPS (Learn all the features of Iphone) I usually use it to see when to start dinner
Dec 14 She was a airport area near our house for 2 hours (I blindly believed she might be bringing one of my kids in for the holidays, then she booked me a trip on 16th to see them)
Feb 10 She was in the airport area again when she was supposed to be working. We were supposed to catch a 6:30 flight that night and she was there at 1:30. At 2:30 I drove there and found her car outside a restaurant.
I took a Pic of her car and texted it to her, told her to have a nice lunch and to tell OP goodbye.
She came right home with the excuse she should have told me she was meeting a friend. This guy used to text or call out of the blue when we first start dating again. Because she is the LOML, I am trying hard to believe her.
The OP is a snake- is married, already been caught in an affair and was seeing my wife on the side in college 40 years ago. His photo came up on suggested friends on FB (and I have never looked for him).
I have dug up the usual info on him wife, address(es), Businesses,etc. I am ready to share with what I have with his wife.
But I would love to have some more verification. I am going to post how I did my investigation in the appropriate forum, because I think that will help some people.
What I will throw out here-Looking for a reliable program to extract deleted texts/imessage/Whatsapp from Iphone and/or cloud
Because SMS texts basically stopped on Jan 12, I conclude he started using Imessage/or an app or they both used an app. I saw a screen that looked like Whatsapp (she had even mentioned Whatsapp) but I have yet to find it on her phone.
Forgive me for being long winded, but I a trying to be clear
